PASTOR: WOMEN, PICK WHO YOU WISH TO MARRY, AND MEN DO SAME
Do you still doubt the fact that women are more than men? Do you still doubt the verse in the Bible that says a man would be attached to by 7 women?
“In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!” ”
Do you still question the rationale of the godly way that permits a man ( Muslim) to marry more than one wife if he could. Or do you still support the unfounded doctrine of the church that says “me and my wife” or ” me and my husband”?
Surah An-Nisa, Verse 3:
وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَىٰ فَانكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَىٰ وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا
“And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan-girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice.”
If your answers to the questions above are still “YES” then you need to see the viral video published on the 20th of July, 2017 on YouTube where the founder and general overseer of Christ Mercyland Deliverance Ministry, Jeremiah Omoto Fufeyin invited single men and women to the alter and ordered them to start choosing whoever they like to marry.
You need to see how women trooped out, rushing to get to the men first before other women. They lined up at the backs of the men. Some men had more than ten women at their backs but unfortunately he still had to pick one according to the pastor ( smiles). Just only two of the men had one woman each at their backs. One amazing fact we need to realize is that, leaving shyness out of this event, the number of women that would have come out would have been five times more than the numbers that did come out. Women are known to be shy yet each men had more than enough…-laughing. If Islam permits betting I can bet it with anyone that the next service in that church will experience overcrowding. The church won’t accommodate the number of women that will worship in it in the coming week. This is how bad it is. There is no point to exaggerate.
Click the link below to see the video :
Then here is the argument:
We need to understand Islam well. We need to think about the reasons why God gives an option of marrying more than one. He didn’t leave it at that but fix a maximum to it, not that a man can continuously marry, NO.
If we accept this we will be liberated and the errors will be corrected in our society.
When we buy any electronic we check for the manual without which we won’t be able to use it according to the manufacturer’s instructions. When you don’t follow manufacturer’s instructions you stand a chance to damage your valuable electronic. The case is similar here. Our creator has given us a manual ( The Qur’an ) so simple and straight forward but unfortunately we are saying we have opinion too.
The research I have carried out personally has shown the major reason why both men and women will likely not willingly accept this.
Starting with women, they hate to hear the topic being discussed. Though these are usually the married ones. They would say, ‘I can’t share my husband’. What if he dies, won’t you remarry? The silent cries of several single ladies, won’t you listen and pity? The questions Muslim ladies truly need to ask themselves is “Am I a Muslimah? How much a Muslimah am I when Allaah says this is an option granted to men and I am having a different opinion?
Know that when Allaah and his messenger have decided, no opinion counts again.
The major reason why women will not willingly accept second wife is because of the man’s properties forgetting that Allaah is the Sustainer.
However, recently men have been the problem going against this divine way of God. They themselves do not want a second woman. This is what the women ( or I say the godly woman ) fail to realize. My research and several other researches have shown the major reason why many men will not want to take second wife. It is simple. What do we think a man needs another wife for when he has other women he keeps in different locations. Or what does he needs again? The only different is that he is not marrying them legally. Or at least, he is not showing them to the one at home. What a deceit! Those who do not have to rent houses for them just call them only when they are needed. Some women don’t even need the men’s money, all they need is sexual satisfaction. Do we think such women who sees different men will think of marriage early, also. These are now the women who have now discovered that it is high time they get married. The video said it all.
I have this to tell our women especially Muslimahs. If a man says he needs a second wife, that man must be faithful because many other men won’t just say it, they will just keep her. It takes a lot of faith to want to take another wife. Research has shown this. The men who say POLYGYNY is absurd are the same men who adopt adultery and fornicate around. What is the justice in that.
Let the truth be said, if you are a Muslimah, and you still deny your husband who wishes to take a second wife, then you are contributing to the anomalies in the world. This is because other Muslimahs ( who can not fornicate) – SubhaanaLlaah – are denied marriage despite the fact that they are not fornicating. And a single Muslimah, who still goes about saying ‘my Abu will be having only me’ or ‘I can not be masnah’ …enh lailai, over my dead body. Do you realize you are not better than sayyidah Aisha (RA) , not sayyidah Sawdah (RA). We must be Muslims at heart sincerely seeking His wajhi; pleasure.
We ask Allaah to rectify our affairs and make us better Muslims and Muslimahs.