Muslim wedding ceremony is becoming non-Islamic in nature.
I begin with the Name of Allaah, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful.
An exposure to the new satanic trend in the form of a series of pictures taken by the would-be partners in an un-Islamic style will shift any man with a sane and balanced understanding from his spiritual comfort zone to that of constant anticipation of Allaah’s wrath.
Innocent people out of ‘marital euphoria’ would do anything just to please the society even if it means going against Allaah’s orders.
A true Muslim goes to any length to protect the honor and chastity of his womenfolk but sadly today, some Muslims even derive pleasure in displaying their women for the world to admire.
And the women are proud to have such husbands whom the Prophet PBUH said will not enter Jannah.
Abdullah ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Three persons will not be looked upon by Allah Almighty on the Day of Resurrection: one who disobeys his parents, a woman who imitates men, and a man who allows his women to fornicate. Three persons will not enter Paradise: one who disobeys his parents, a drunkard, and one who reminds others of his charity.”
Source: Sunan al-Nasā’ī 2562
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
The Hadith transliteration :
عَنْ سَالِمِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ثَلَاثَةٌ لَا يَنْظُرُ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ إِلَيْهِمْ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ الْعَاقُّ لِوَالِدَيْهِ وَالْمَرْأَةُ الْمُتَرَجِّلَةُ وَالدَّيُّوثُ وَثَلَاثَةٌ لَا يَدْخُلُونَ الْجَنَّةَ الْعَاقُّ لِوَالِدَيْهِ وَالْمُدْمِنُ عَلَى الْخَمْرِ وَالْمَنَّانُ بِمَا أَعْطَى
2562 سنن النسائي كتاب الزكاة المنان بما أعطى
2561 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث حسن صحيح في صحيح النسائي
What is Dayooth?
Ad-Dayooth is the man who permits women for whom he is responsible (eg: mother, wife, sister etc.) to engage in illicit sexual relations, or to display their beauty to strange men, or to dress in an immodest manner
How can a true believer’s spiritual well-being remains healthy when his wife’s picture travels round the world and admired by the good, the bad and the ugly?
May Allaah protect us.
The competition of a real believer is in good ways not in disobedience. We are trying to outdo one another in sins.Wedding dinner, what’s supposed to be a decent feast and a get-together is now the backbone of everything opposing Allaah’s orders.
The wedding dressing that our sisters put on is pathetic, unislamic and retrogressive. And to think that their parents sit their to watch them display an open disobedience to Allaah’s orders for a day’s event is shocking and lamentable. To see it as civilization is backwardness.
An all women event where they are not obliged to cover themselves completely as in when there are men in their midst is fairer than this open ungrateful act for a blessing (marriage) that many are praying for.
But with paparazzis all around for the wedding pictures and videos to make headlines, we see marriages deprived of blessings.
May Allaah bless our marriages.
Women in tight outfits, exactly as the Prophet (Pbuh) painted their image, mixing freely with strange men with an accompanied music playing at the background inviting the wrath of Allaah and we expect Allah’s blessings in our marriages. What a deliberate contradiction.
Can’t we have a decent marriage? Can’t we think of Allaah’s wrath when planning our wedding events? Are we so blinded and desperate for a 24 hour recognition that we are willing to compromise on our eeman? Who blesses marriages? Is it not Allaah?
Or do the people we consider when we disobey Allaah have the key to our marital bliss and righteous offspring? Think and ponder, wallah! If the foundation of our wedding is built on Allaah’s disobedience then don’t blame Allaah or the society when our children become delinquents.
Do not ruin the life of your children yet unborn. The people we threw up a lavish immoral dinner to impress will be the first to broadcast our marital problems when Allaah removes blessings in our marriages. So decide who to please now.
May Allaah give us partners that will hold us and drag us with utmost care to Jannah not those that know nothing beyond the material world.