In the name of Allah, the most gracious, the most merciful.
Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) is the father of the Prophets, the leader of the monotheistic way, the intimate friend of Allāh and the father of the Imāms of mankind. He lived a life of struggle, having confronted the idolatry of his community from his early youth,
“And We had certainly given Ibrāhīm his sound judgement before.”
He debated fearlessly with the tyrant of his time, and was the only representative of
Tawḥīd living between the two ends of the earth. He was commanded to migrate with Hājar and his firstborn Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) to the then arid and lifeless valley of Makkah, before being commanded to leave his family and walk away.
Without hesitation or a second’s thought, he patiently submitted and after Hājar’s desperation, the spring of Zamzam gushed from beneath her feet.
Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) would frequently spend time with his beloved son and his fatherly attachment to him grew. Finally the testing command came, “the most manifest trial”. Again and again he would see himself slaughtering Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) in his dreams and he realised it was a command from Allāh,
“When he was of an age to work with him, he said, ‘My son, I saw in a dream that I must slaughter you. What do you think about this?’”
According to Ibn Kathīr, Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) informed his son in order to make it easier for him to bear and to test his patience, fortitude and his resolve during his youth to obey Allāh Almighty and obey his father.  And sure enough, he was not disappointed, for Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) was nurtured by a man nurtured by the Almighty, and nurtured by a woman who, when seeing Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) walking away, leaving them in a barren and desolate place, exhibited one of the most prime forms of patience and certainty in Allāh’s assistance history has known,
“Has Allāh ordered you (to leave us in this barren land alone)? He will thus never forsake us…”
What response, then, would Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) have given? How is Ismāʿīl’s (ʿalayhi al-Salām) response the best a son could have given his father ahead of this testing episode?
“He said, ‘O my father, do what you are ordered. Allāh willing, you will find me patient.’”
Let us reflect on Ismāʿīl’s (ʿalayhi al-Salām) response and assess what any other response to an emotional Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) may have possibly implied.
1) Profess Ignorance of the Dream’s Interpretation
Ibrāhīm’s (ʿalayhi al-Salām) words did not contain a direct order. He asks his son about his ‘thoughts’ leaving the ball entirely in Ismāʿil’s (ʿalayhi al-Salām) court. The opportunity was open for a reply such as ‘maybe it means I will one day die, or maybe it means you will sacrifice a goat for me.’
Of course it is not befitting of a Prophet of Allāh to profess ignorance when he clearly knows. But Ismāʿil’s (ʿalayhi al-Salām) response was without delay or deliberation. Neither did he have to correct himself following an initial hesitation. Instinct would make one reluctant to invite another to sacrifice them, but not Ismāʿil’ (ʿalayhi al-Salām).
2) Respond only to the Question
Ismāʿil’ (ʿalayhi al-Salām) had unmistakably recognised the interpretation of the dream. He is to be slaughtered by his father. But we must realise that he was asked about what he thought of the matter. He could have responded with,
‘Well father, I think that Allāh is ordering you to slaughter me…’ as in: ‘I am your young son, still developing and less experienced, my opinion might be incorrect.’
Inevitably, this would have placed an emotional weight on Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām). Beyond the duty of carrying out the unimaginable task, he would have had to
convince Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) that this was indeed the correct interpretation. Thereafter he would need to declare that his intention is indeed to carry out the interpretation, all the while anxious as to his son’s reaction, his tears, his shudders and his cries. But this is not how Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) responded.
3) Only mention the interpretation of the dream
It is well known that Prophets’ visions are inspirations ( Wahy ) from Allāh. Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) recognised this. Imagine, however, that he only responded with,
‘O my father, Allāh is ordering you to slaughter me.’
Though Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) would seem to have hit the nail on the head with this response; this response alone would not have stopped Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) from wondering what his son thought of this order and whether he was willing or anxious about being sacrificed.
4) Mention the Interpretation of the Dream and Surrender to the Divine Order
Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) could also have replied ‘O my father, Allāh is ordering you to slaughter me, so slaughter me.’ Finally, a perfect interpretation, an endorsement and a clear submission to the Divine Order. Surely nothing better could have been achieved? Though incredibly righteous and endlessly impressive, it contains ‘Allāh is ordering you.’
Firstly, is this what Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) is after? Does he need to be retold an interpretation he is already well aware of? Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) is a man of shrewd understanding and intelligence and knows well both the degree of his father’s knowledge and his insinuations. This response would not have been fitting.
With regards to ‘…to slaughter me’, Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) has already seen this in his vision. What then would be the need of Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) arousing his fatherly emotions by outlining it again, or verbally uttering the words ‘slaughter me’? Fathers are pained by any notion of pain inflicted on their children, let alone hearing ‘step on my neck, run the knife across it, slaughter me’.
Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) was not in pursuit of sympathy. He is aware that in Allāh’s commands is the climax of mercy and kindness and it is upon him to submit to this higher Divine Order, regardless of whether he understands its compassionate dimensions or not.
5) Surrender to the Divine Order without mentioning it
Instead, Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) said,
‘O my father, do what you are ordered.’
As if to say, ‘you know the interpretation of the vision, and you know that I know it because Allāh has taught me well.’ In a few words the entire vision and how it should enfold in reality is encapsulated in ‘what ’ or ‘ mā’.
‘Do what you are ordered for you are not after an interpretation, a postponement or a debate about meanings and hidden wisdoms but willingness to mutually fulfil Allāh’s order …’
If this response alone is not remarkable enough, the patient, submissive and righteous son goes on to reassure his father of his readiness and condition during the ordeal.
‘You will find me resolute’.
He does not say ‘ I will be resolute’. One interpretation of this is that ‘you’ carries the implication that ‘I will fulfil your eye and make you proud. This is not about me, I want
you to be reassured and satisfied that it makes no difference to me.’ It is a reply full of enthusiasm and bravery. It is as if he is saying, you will see my success because it concerns you for me to achieve.
Compare this conversation with one Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi al-Salām) had with his own father when he was a young man. He was shunned by his father, despite calling him to Allāh kindly and persuading him logically and emotionally, with promise and with warning.
And yet, Ismāʿīl (ʿalayhi al-Salām) required nothing of the like, rather he assisted his father on his path to Allāh. He ordered his father to obey Allāh whilst upholding parental honour and gentle address.
“He said, ‘O my father (Abatī),
do what you are ordered. Allāh willing, you will find me patient.’”
“Then when they had both submitted and he had laid him face down on the ground, We called out to him, ‘Ibrāhīm! You have discharged your vision.’ That is how We recompense good-doers. This was indeed a most manifest trial. We ransomed him with a mighty sacrifice.”
What a gift and honour for this mighty messenger and what a gift and honour it is for us to be of his followers, to re-enact his footsteps in our creed, our day to day worship, and during the days of Ḥajj. All praise be to Allāh who has made us a nation of
Muslims , about whom He informs,
“And We left for him [favourable mention] among later generations:
‘Peace be upon Ibrāhīm.’”
References: Al-Qur’ān, 21:51  Al-Qur’ān, 37:106  Al-Qur’ān, 37:102  See Tafsīr Ibn Kathīr  Ḥadīth, Bukhārī on the authority of ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAbbās (raḍiy Allāhu ʿanhu)  Al-Qur’ān, 37:102  Bukhārī on the authority of ʿUbaid b. ʿAmr (raḍiy Allāhu ʿanhu)  Al-Qur’ān, 19:42 onwards  Al-Qur’ān, 37:102  Al-Qur’ān, 37: 103-109  Qur’an 37: 108-109