WHO IS AN INDOOR HUSBAND? By Abu Unaysah Bn Ibrahim Olakewu
An indoor husband is a homely man. A man who loves to stay indoors. A man who loves to spend time with his family. A man who prefers home made food to eating outside. A man who prefers to come home and stay with his family rather than staying out to talk or chit chat with friends till late hours. A man who has time for his kids. A man who does not sleep outside without a cogent reason. A man that is a perfect example of a family man.
I know most WOMEN will wish for this type of HUSBAND.
Often many Umm’s had complained of their HUSBAND not keeping to indoors. Many Abu’s has turned to outdoors Abu’s.
Do you wish to have an indoor HUSBAND?
These are things you must do to keep him indoor:
1. PEACE: Peace of mind is one of the things men cherish most. If you have all the curves and beautiful face and you don’t give your man peace of mind you might loose him to be an outdoor ABU.
2. GOOD FOOD : Don’t starve an indoor man. Get his food ready on time. Cook varieties and serve him by yourself. Learn spices foods and juices to make him stick to the house.
3. CLEANLINESS: A clean home keeps your man indoors, especially if he is the decent type. Keep the home clean if you have an indoor husband or wants to keep him indoor.
4. FUN : Be someone who is fun to be with. Don’t be cranky and troublesome .Don’t nag him. If you do you will chase him out.
5. BE ROMANTIC: Be deliberate in your dressing. Entice him, seduce him, he is your husband. Don’t be too “holy’ when it comes to satisfying your man.
6. INTEREST: Pick interest in things he LOVES to do and join him if possible. If he LOVES reading, read with him. If he types on computer, learn how to assist him in typing it. If he LOVES browsing, join him in browsing.
7. CREATE TIME TO BE WITH HIM – Many women make the mistake of leaving their husband at home and keep running after money and career. Cut down on those things keeping you away from home and keep his company.
Don’t leave him with your sisters or at the mercy of a house girl. If you have an indoors husband don’t stay away from home for too long. Yes I know you need to work or run your business, but apply wisdom. Be there to give him what he wants.
May Allah Subuhanahu wa Ta’ala bless our family. Aamiyn!
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