The woman with you (your wife – ves) is someone’s treasured daughter, and if Allah wishes, you will have daughter(s) too – treat your wife the same good way you want your daughter’s future spouse to treat them.
This is a good precedence, and even a Tawassul (Intercession-worthy) deed Akhee.
Remember the day you promised to make her happy always, and cater for her needs with what you’re blessed with.
Don’t forget that she was your ‘dream to achieve’ some time ago, before Allah granted her to you.
Don’t maltreat Allah’s gift to you (YOUR WIFE – VES).
“…And live with them in kindness…” (Quran 4:19)
The Messenger of God said in a Hadith that; “The most perfect of believers in belief is the best of them in character. The best of you are those who are the best to their women.”
Abu-l-Qaasim tells us that a husband’s treatment of his wife reflects his Eeman. Husbands, smile to your wife(ves), do not hurt her/them emotionally, collapse anything that will harm her, treat her/them gently, and be patient with your wife(ves) always.
Being nice to one’s wife(ves) includes good communication. Husbands, be willing to listen to his wife as well, create a sitting of intellectual discussion with her/them.
Please listen to your wives (both the words she speak with mouth and other ways), and don’t inconvenient them just because you want to please someone else.
You’re meant to be a means of happiness to your wives not otherwise.
You’ll be seen smiling to everyone outside, and being cheerful to the General Public, Yes, this is good!
But why do you turn to a frowning soldier immediately you set feet into your house?
The Prophet of Allah’s (Peace be upon him) guidance to us never involve this scorn act.
Your wife(ves) deserve the smiling face too Akhee.
Being good to wife(ves) includes encouraging your priceless jewel-s (wife – ves). The more you as a husband compliments your wife(ves), the more the wife(ves) will admire it and respect you. Kind words are like, “I cherish the way you reason,” “You look gorgeous in those clothes,” and “I love hearing your voice on the phone.” etc are some of the “TURN-ON” words you can use while complimenting your wife(ves).
The Prophet of Allah said, “A believing man should not hate a believing woman. If he dislikes something in her character, he should be pleased with some other trait of hers.”
Typically, some husbands tend to forget the trailers of sacrifices their wife(ves) has done for them because of some imperfections or anger, this isn’t right, always remember her good deeds when the otherwise happen. And gently admonish her accordingly on the errs – they’ll fade away as soon as possible if you correct her with “love”.